Posted on March 31, 2009 by kempsmeal
The Four Agreements, a book by Don Miguel Ruiz, is a work that continues to inspire me, and enhances my life, work, and relationships. If you are looking for a practical guide to help you challenge the life long patterns of thoughts and behaviors that keep you stuck and in pain, this may be the [...]
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Posted on January 31, 2009 by kempsmeal
Jealousy is the tie that binds, and binds, and binds.
Helen Rowland
Mike and Dan have been in a committed relationship for 5 years. One evening, while having dinner with some good friends, Dan notices that Mike is flirting with their mutual friend Rob. Dan is [...]
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Posted on January 7, 2009 by kempsmeal
Creativity involves breaking out of established patterns in order to look at things in a different way…
Edward de Bono
Happy New Year!
As you begin 2009, consider ways to create an abundant, fulfilling, and loving year of personal and professional relationship experiences.
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Posted on December 4, 2008 by kempsmeal
The holiday’s are almost here again! Are you anticipating good times with your family, friends, partner, professional or social gatherings? Are you looking forward to peaceful and fun times with people you care about? Or are you dreading the season, anxious or stressed about dealing with family members, your partner’s expectations, or financial issues? Some [...]
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Posted on November 11, 2008 by kempsmeal
I was having dinner with a friend not too long ago. At one point in our conversation he asked why I thought gay men have a difficult time staying in long-term, committed relationships with other gay men. He wondered if the reason was “infidelity.” This got me thinking about why it is some gay men [...]
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Posted on October 21, 2008 by kempsmeal
Personal Relationships often go through developmental phases involving periods of negotiating degrees of emotional closeness and distance with our partners, friends, families, or work associates. It’s normal to struggle with these phases and to know how to navigate through the relational passage into a deeper, more meaningful relationship. Following are some ideas on how to [...]
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Posted on September 24, 2008 by kempsmeal
Welcome to my blog. I’m glad you found it. This is a blog for gay men and those who love and care about gay men. The blog provides tips, strategies, and information that might be able to help you have better relationships and life experiences. Being gay, and living in this world and society can [...]
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